The bank of mom and dad: Taking extremes to secure children’s homeownership dreams in steep markets

In this economy, the Bank of Mom and Dad is more popular than ever.

It’s no secret that it’s harder to buy a home now than when they were young. Canadian parents have passed billions of dollars to their adult children in recent years. It is intended to give them a leg up when entering the housing market or in changing circumstances. Up against ever higher prices, limited supply, stringent mortgage requirements and steep interest rates and taxes, they want to help.

The unprecedented transfer of wealth is in part due to a fear of missing out. , Parents want to do all they can to ensure their kids are able to realize homeownership before it’s completely out of reach.

Embracing extreme measures before homeownership completely out of reach

In the past five years, this has gone beyond providing a loan or helping with the down payment. Parents are now, in some cases, making installment payments or becoming guarantors. The latter makes them liable for mortgage payments if their son or daughter defaults. Many are going on title as co-signers to help their offspring qualify for a mortgage.

Other tactics being used amount to pulling funds out of their retirement savings or using equity from their own home. These, including a second mortgage or home equity line of credit to assist, potentially puts their own retirement at risk.

Suggest clients get legal advice if asked about parents loaning or gifting money to kids

It’s wonderful to be able to help get your struggling offspring launched. Some are getting a little too comfortable in the basement. Realtors, parents and their kids need to be aware of the potential risks in these situations.

If things go sideways, realtors and parents may be exposing themselves to an expensive and time-consuming lawsuit. When talking about parents loaning or even gifting money to their children, it would be advisable for them to get legal advice.

As an example: “Imagine a situation with a pre-construction home and rising interest rates. There’s a risk that a child may not be able to secure a mortgage by the time the sale closes. They may face exposure for damages from the developer … but exposure may be limited by their limited assets. A parent, on the other hand, may have another property or other assets, and face significant exposure because they’re named as a buyer on the agreement of purchase and sale.”

Those who come from families without deep pockets have fewer options.

More families are making the move to Alberta or further east where it is more affordable than BC or Ontario.

Unfortunately, parental generosity is increasingly necessary if younger generations are to get ahead. Not everyone wants to own their own home, but for those who do, it is more and more difficult. This is where parents or sometimes grandparents are stepping in to help out.

Gifting, early inheritances and some of the other ways mentioned, are creative ways families are getting involved.

It’s not uncommon for “children” as old as 40 and over to be the recipients of their parents’ generosity when it comes to housing.

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The basis of this article comes from Royal LePage blogger Susan Doran.